What if you could see it, too?
You have tremendous gifts and talents. You are also equally as amazing as all those inspiring people you respect and admire. But I'm not here to try and convince you - my role is to help you increase your awareness so you can discover this truth for yourself...
How would your life be different if you knew without a doubt that you are whole and perfect exactly as you are?
Maybe you'd stop chasing “normal," because you finally understand it doesn't actually exist. Perhaps you'd stop wasting all that extra energy trying to fix what you once thought of as “broken.” Living life from these new perspectives, it's possible you might even stop focusing being "successful" in the future and finally start discovering authentic fulfillment. Every. Single. Day.
What's holding you back?
If you tend to judge yourself according to extremely high standards, you may find it hard to believe that you (or your current circumstances) are anywhere even close to perfect right now. This relentless pursuit of perfection often leads to overwhelming stress and anxiety, especially for people who identify with the Four Traits of Selfless Perfectionism. Consider the following questions:
- Do you naturally pick up on the emotions of the people around you?
- Is it easier to put their needs ahead of your own?
- Do you also hold yourself to high expectations?
- And are you often your own worst critic?
If you said "yes" to all the above, you may be a selfless perfectionist. Want to be sure? Take this quiz to find out!
Being a selfless perfectionist isn't a bad thing. And it certainly doesn't mean you have to shoulder these stressful, anxiety-producing burdens for the rest of your life. Although it's impossible (and totally counterproductive) to change who you are, it is entirely possible to change how you see yourself...
How do I know this? Because I'm a selfless perfectionist, too, and once I found the courage to confront my fears about these aspects of myself, I learned an unexpected and extremely important lesson. Empathy, selflessness, perfectionism, and self-criticism aren’t burdens – they’re actually superpowers! When you finally see them in this new light, you'll also see yourself and the world around you with profound new clarity.
"This is an end toward which we could strive – to be the still axis within the revolving wheel of relationships, obligations, and activities."
~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Gift from the Sea
It's time for a new perspective...
What if none of the circumstances of your life had to change in order for everything to look and feel completely different?
Uncertainty may be a fact of life, but unmanageable stress and anxiety don't have to be. While you may not be able to get rid of any of the challenges you face, the one thing you can control in every moment is your perspective. My methods can empower you to:
- Reduce stress and anxiety
- Experience increased daily mindfulness
- Identify your essential core values
- Harness your superpowers of selfless perfectionism
- Build an unshakable foundation of self-trust
- Create healthy boundaries
- Reconnect to your self-worth; and
- Share your gifts with the world
If you're ready, then I invite you to step onto the path of the Courageous Embrace...
Becky has helped me understand and work through my anxiety more thoroughly and efficiently than any other person, book, or method I've tried.
~ Gloria, passionate educator & truth seeker
Becky inspires me to live my best life, with integrity and courage and love.
~ Katie, courageous parent & soulful connector